More recently, I've been joking about trust issues a lot. I use that as an excuse just to not tell people things, whether I actually trust someone or not. I will admit, however, that I did learn the importance of not telling everyone everything the hard way - being open with others used to be my forte.
Through watching dramas such as Pretty Little Liars and Gossip Girl, it's made me wonder a lot about how many secrets my friends keep against me (things that involve me obviously, not just about other's business) and deeper, within my family - if any that is.
We've been brought up to tell the truth and to especially be open to our parents. I guess it just scares me thinking that my parents could be hiding important details about my life to me and I could never know. And this is also the part when I remind myself that dramas tend not to be based on real stories and are exaggerated for entertainment. But what if?
Whilst on the one hand I crave for a slightly more interesting life story, it's scary to think that secrets have so much power and can really make or break something. As little kids we've all made those pinky promises with bestfriends, swearing on your heart and your parents' lives not to tell.
Clearly we're all pros at getting a secret out of people but we don't consider enough how telling these few words can impact a person's life.
Secrets are what keeps us close, shhhh
Haynam xoxo
Ps. If you're a pll or gossip girl fan, hope you enjoyed my references in this post ;)
Through watching dramas such as Pretty Little Liars and Gossip Girl, it's made me wonder a lot about how many secrets my friends keep against me (things that involve me obviously, not just about other's business) and deeper, within my family - if any that is.
We've been brought up to tell the truth and to especially be open to our parents. I guess it just scares me thinking that my parents could be hiding important details about my life to me and I could never know. And this is also the part when I remind myself that dramas tend not to be based on real stories and are exaggerated for entertainment. But what if?
Whilst on the one hand I crave for a slightly more interesting life story, it's scary to think that secrets have so much power and can really make or break something. As little kids we've all made those pinky promises with bestfriends, swearing on your heart and your parents' lives not to tell.
Clearly we're all pros at getting a secret out of people but we don't consider enough how telling these few words can impact a person's life.
Secrets are what keeps us close, shhhh
Haynam xoxo
Ps. If you're a pll or gossip girl fan, hope you enjoyed my references in this post ;)